Gentle Vaginal Dilators for Comfort, Healing & Confidence
More comfort. More confidence. More joy. The Wisteria Dilator Set from The Natural Love Company is a gentle, non-intimidating way to reconnect with your body—on your own timeline and in your own space.
Whether you’re navigating painful intimacy, vaginismus, menopausal changes, or post-surgical recovery, Wisteria offers a compassionate, step-by-step approach to rebuilding flexibility, ease, and trust in your body. With soft, medical-grade silicone and an easy-to-use ring handle design, each dilator supports a gradual, empowering journey toward healing and pleasure.
As always, it’s designed with purpose—thoughtfully crafted from body-safe materials and packaged in eco-conscious, plastic-free materials, in line with The Natural Love Company’s planet-first values.
Why You’ll Love Wisteria:
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Four graduated sizes – Start small and progress as you feel ready
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Soft ring handles – For better grip, comfort, and control
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Medical-grade silicone – Silky smooth, warmable, and easy to clean
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Designed for at-home use – Move at your pace, in a space that feels safe
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Includes a cotton storage bag – Discreet, clean, and travel-friendly
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Includes a sample of Okanagan Joy lubricant – Our bestselling, plant-based lube to support comfort and glide
Whether you're preparing for intimacy, reclaiming sensation, or simply learning to feel safe and comfortable in your body again, Wisteria is here to help—gently, gradually, and without pressure.
What Wisteria Supports:
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Pain during sex or penetration
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Vaginismus or vulvodynia
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Vaginal tightness, dryness, or atrophy
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Scarring or narrowing from surgery or radiation
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Anxiety around gynecological exams or intimacy
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Gentle reintroduction to penetration
FAQs
Q: What are vaginal dilators, and how do they help?
Dilators are smooth, gently tapered tools designed to help stretch and relax the vaginal tissues over time. They can ease pain, reduce tightness, and increase confidence in anticipation of intimacy or exams.
Q: Is Wisteria suitable for beginners?
Yes. The smallest dilator is just 1.3 cm in diameter, making it a gentle starting point. The soft ring handle gives you full control throughout the experience.
Q: Can I warm the dilators before use?
Yes! Warm them in water to body temperature before use to make the experience even more soothing and comfortable.
Q: How often should I use them?
That’s entirely up to you. Many users begin with 5–10 minutes a few times a week, gradually increasing duration and size as comfort improves.
Q: How do I clean them?
Wash with warm water and a body-safe toy cleaner or mild soap. Dry thoroughly before storing in the cotton bag.
Wisteria is more than a product—it’s a path to healing, hope, and joyful intimacy.
Move forward with compassion, confidence, and care.
Looking for the perfect pairing?
Explore the The Gentle Reset Bundle featuring the Wysteria, VVM Vulva & Vaginal Moisturizer (30ml) and our bestselling Okanagan Joy lubricant. It’s the ideal combination for smoother, more satisfying connection—made for real bodies and real intimacy.
Why Intimate Wellbeing
WOMEN-OWNED, CANADIAN-BASED
We are a passionate duo who want to help women find joy.
BODY-SAFE & ECO-FRIENDLY
We strive to source clean formulas and body-safe pleasure devices.
QUALITY CONTROL-ONLY THE BEST
We've hand-picked each product. They are tested and ready to go.
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Hear from the Founders
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